To tell you the truth, i have zero confidence in me. i can’t even wear my beanie that i recently bought in school without being embarrassed or cautious about getting weird stares. my ‘fashion sense’ is changing, a bit, causing my fellow classmates to look at me weirdly. i’m one of the shy kids at school as well. i think gaining confidence takes one step at a time and who you’re with. when i’m with friends i have loads of confidence in what i do. when i got prescription nerd glasses i was hesitant in wearing them, but i needed it to see…as the days progressed i began to wearing them more often and not taking them off w/o being embarrassed. it just takes time to feel comfortable with your environment. it truly is hard to gain confidence so quickly, you just need to be brave and take little steps. the situation i’m trying to deal with is wearing my beanie, so today i wore it for like a couple of seconds and took it off..i’m guessing next month or so i’ll start wearing it during classes where i feel comfortable. if you want to gain confidence in talking to someone or doing something then bring a friend that can help you do it. last school year i was only confident when i was with my best friend and the two of us would do crazy shit together which leads us into embarrassing ourselves, but we laugh at it. i’m really sorry for ranting i’m just trying to think of examples. but confidence can also be gained if you take a chance and do what you want.

i don’t think i’ve got the full story of this?…i feel secluded from my family as well. my sister and parents always get along and having a laugh, while i’m off somewhere being reserved and quiet. i also feel like i might have something wrong with me because i start panicking about the future and the worst things happening too. you just need to take a breather, and i don’t know if you’re religious or not, but sometimes praying helps me ease my nerves. you can try to ease your nerves in a healthy way such as drawing, writing, dancing, singing, listening to music, and so on. try talking to your parents while your siblings are off doing something else, so you all can connect or have some kind of moment. i do that when ever i’m with my mom or dad…i just randomly talk about a topic that they might get into such as school, family related, and future stuff

i’ve been feeling lonely lately too..i don’t know why. i’ve searched things on google like sunday night? and it someone said that it’s due to the hormones in our teenage bodies that is making us feel this way. i believe that you should at least try to find new friends to hang around with. if you have some acquaintances try to befriend them and see how it goes. it may be a phase for them, but who knows. if you need someone to talk to i’m always here. Xx

im 4’11” and I’m pretty chubby. i dont even know my own wait i just keep eating and I’ve got some bushy eyebrows (in my opinion) and a flat nose…don’t make yourself throw up or starve yourself. eat as much as you want, but make sure you do make healthy choices…my family has high blood pressure and really arent the healthiest people, but i at least try to eat healthy after eating a large amount of junk food…but it never balances out..anyway, if you’re confident with the way you look then don’t bother changing yourself. i sometimes accept the way i look but then there are other times where i just hate myself, but you’re beautiful no matter what….if you don’t want to exercise and you’re healthy then don’t exercise you’re parents are going to accept you no matter what. they might wish for you to do different things in life but they can’t control you. you have the power to do whatever you want. hope this helps! please message me more often so i can be updated with how you’re doing! Xx i might not respond b/c I’ll be asleep

hey lovely! sorry this might be a late response, anywho, just take a breather okay?…im like the last seats away from last chair in 2nd violin. just enjoy playing like i do. if you love what your doing then keep on doing it. who cares if your in 2nd violin. you’re needed in the orchestra to make it sound complete! as for your grades, you could always see the teacher and ask for help…if your too stubborn maybe you could ask a friend or you can even ask me for help. idk how old you are but im 15….and i can’t guarantee that I’ll be able to respond right away but i check tumblr at night…(cont)